I'm sorry this is your experience. The joy to just exist without constant harassment, fear, and violence, to live without having to consistently defend one's humanity, is wasted on so many spiteful, hateful people. But we have always made it acceptable -- and even profitable -- to abuse and dehumanize women. Especially, Black and WoC. The tragedy is we could be better. But even accountability concerning men is treated as an unjust "witch hunt"